I Like My Echo Chamber

Essays, Musings, Personal
We've heard a lot lately about how we have filtered our social media feeds to hear only what we want to hear. We have created echo chambers for ourselves and that's bad. I say not so fast. That depends on your echo. My criteria is simple - is this person a jerk? Do they substitute snark and sarcasm for intelligent thought? Do they view cruelty as just another brand of humor? If their public discourse generally belittles others, then I try to have minimal contact with them. I've spent a considerable amount of time cultivating my Facebook feed and social media contacts. I'm long past accepting every friend request that comes my way just because we come from the same home town or spent a few hours together on a…
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Are You Ready for a Change?

Essays, Musings
What would it take to…? Whenever I started a sentence like that, my business partner at our small marketing firm would just roll his eyes and laugh. He knew that I was nurturing the seed of some new idea – something probably odd and impractical that could easily make money or flame out in spectacular glory. It was a regular enough occurrence that it ceased to be a surprise. We would just move to the conference room where he would graciously hear me out. We would walk through the pros and cons of the idea and then map out what it would take to become a reality. It was a simple but effective exercise and it started with a simple question – “What would it take to…?” The world is…
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Vocational Manifesto

Musings
I don't usually cross-post my essays from whoneedsnormal.com, but this one was more personal. Here is the text in its entirety as it appeared here: Last week, I turned in my resignation from my day job. It was a good decision, allowing me to exit gracefully on my own terms rather than stay in a situation that would become more and more of a poor fit over time. At this point, it feels more like an opportunity - the kick in the pants we needed to move our family forward into the next adventure. However, it does mean that I have some serious work to do in order to find that next adventure. For the foreseeable future, my kids are going to continue to need shoes, daily meals, and an education,…
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What I Want To Be When I Grow Up

Musings
A few times a year, I get the chance to flex my preaching muscles by filling in when pastor friends and colleagues are away from their pulpits.  This last one was shortly after Christmas, and explores the challenges and opportunities of having many passions and uniting them within a single vocation or calling (I know - both redundant and repetitive). Here is the audio of that sermon, entitled What I Want To Be When I Grow Up. For some reason, there's an audio distortion that picks up about halfway through.  If I can figure out a way to filter that out, I will repost with a cleaner version.  
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Care and Feeding of Your Introvert

Musings
Originally published as a contribution to The Secret Lair titled Geek Husbandry – Care and Feeding of Yourself and Your Minions Part 1 – Myths About Introverts I was recently in need of some educational credits for work, and I decided to check out a book about introverted leadership. To my dismay, I quickly discovered that the book was written by an extrovert. I gave up about halfway through the small tome, feeling ickier and more ill-used than usual. After stewing on the issue for a while and writing a scathing review on Amazon, I decided to set the record straight regarding those whom society has judged based on their personality types. I have a personal hypothesis that geeky pursuits tend to appeal more towards introverts for a number of…
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Crackpot Scheme #763, or Why MMOs Suck

Ideas & Designs, Musings
This was an earlier contribution to The Secret Lair and can be read in context here. I confess. I am a wannabe junky for Massively Multiplayer Online games (MMOs).  I say wannabe, because I have yet to find the right game that scratches my itch for the MMO experience. Perhaps the closest I have ever come to that level of passion and devotion was when playing the original Everquest.  That experience ended with the birth of our first child, when my wife said to me “I don’t think you realize the extent to which this child has changed our life.”  She was right, of course. Being a dad is a lot more important (and fun) than camping for another <generic creature> to kill and acquire another <generic material> to make another…
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One Man’s Jumbo Monopoly Set Is Another Man’s New Computer

Musings, Projects
The general rule for getting new toys at my house is that I must purchase the new and shiny using the proceeds from the sale of older toys. This allows me to buy fun things without guilt and generally keeps me from collecting too much crap.  The downside is that most of my toys involve technology in some way and decrease in value over time.  This leaves me with a general shortage of fun money when the urge to buy kicks in. Enter the need for a new computer. My workhorse PC is now 8 years old and due for replacement.  A modest new computer would be totally appropriate to purchase out of normal household expenses. However, if the next one has to last another 8 years, then I want…
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Skeptics and Hope

Musings
A month or two ago, a friend of mine asked his Facebook friends "Do you believe in God? Why or why not?"  Usually reluctant to (a) share personal things and (b) participate in the online debate / flamewar of the week, I refrained from answering.  I did follow the discussion thread as it grew, and the burden of answering the question continued to roll around in my head. A couple of times a year, I get to dust off my professional ministry hat and put it on for a bit.  Aside from the occasional wedding, I sometimes have the opportunity to fill the pulpit for our pastor while he is on vacation.  This often happens after Christmas, as he likes to take some time off following the very busy Advent…
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I Give Up on Political Parties

Musings
I have long ticked off friends and family by not following their lead and subscribing to a single political party.  I've made no secret about being registered as an Independent voter.  I think at its core, I find Libertarianism to make the most sense.  Indeed, in the last election I voted for a Republican, a Democrat, and a Libertarian.  I was kind of proud of that. Lately, it seems as though I have needed to hide more and more friends' posts from my Facebook news feed.  Maybe I've just lost patience with zealots in general, but discounting entire ideologies or people based on a label seems to demean us all and our capacity for critical thought.   I'm not really speaking of a particular current event in the news.  The…
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